About - Purpose in action
Created for men ready to live from presence.
My Story
For most of my life, being strong, out of touch with my emotions and keeping it together, felt like I was in control. I did what I thought what was expected of me. I took action before checking in with myself. Unconsciously letting a nervous system that wasn’t healed, make my decisions. It cost me two relationships with women I still hold dear. And it cost me several years to be fully honest with myself and find a way to regulate my nervous system, to become the man I am today.
Through self-reflection, bodywork, and coaching, I learned to slow down and meet myself when I felt most uncomfortable. To lead from awareness, not reaction. That change shaped my life, my relationships, and my work.
“Echte verandering begint wanneer je durft los te laten.”
My Approach
Purpose in Action is not about perfection. It’s about presence.
I work with men who want to move beyond control, to build calm, confidence, and connection that lasts. Our sessions are practical, direct, and rooted in awareness.
How we work together:
Calm and structured sessions that bring clarity fast.
Curiosity-based reflection to replace judgment with insight.
Embodiment practices to reconnect thought and emotion.
Real-life integration, so awareness turns into consistent action.
“Je hoeft niet meer te worden. Je hoeft alleen op te komen dagen.”
My Philosophy
You can’t think your way to peace.
You have to become aware of the signals in your body, and practice it daily.
That’s what awareness in action looks like.
When you start meeting yourself with honesty and curiosity, control becomes unnecessary. What follows is a calm, steady confidence, the kind that doesn’t need to prove anything.
“Bewustwording wordt beweging, als je ernaar durft te handelen.”
